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                                     Faith

      Calder`s Corner                will unfurl an ever-widening circle   to the infant Church.
                                     of feathers, so love also `fans   Anyway, back to Valentine’s Day   Pippin’s Paws for Thought
                                     out` filling every aspect of human   – it is almost upon us! So do not
                                     existence. Love is magnetic – at-  forget to send your card with its   Dear All,
                                     tracting affection; love is enduring   message of endearment and quin-
                                     – promoting survival; And love   tessential kisses. Interestingly, the   They are back!  Yes Benji and
                                     is adhesive – the `glue` of social   symbol we use for a kiss appears   his mum Lilly-Puss are back in
                                     cohesion. Love may mean nothing   to be a `throwback` to the crucifix-  my home at the Vicarage.  From
                                     in tennis – but it means everything   ion of Jesus. Way back in history,   over hearing conversations with
                                     in life!                       when few people could read and   my guardians, it seems their
                                     In the Greek language there are   write, a mark denoting the cross of   guardian has now moved into a
                                     several kinds of love. The four   Christ was often used on docu-  care home permanently.  Well,
                                     basic types are: Eros – romantic   ments and letters – the `signature`   that’s not a very good ‘care
                                     love; Storge – family love; Philia   was then kissed by the signer to   home’ if they don’t care for us
                                                                    emphasise that their communica-
      Love is..                      God’s divine love. Bible readers   tion was sincere and honest.  cats too.  So, I’m stuck with
                                     – brotherly love; and Agape –
                                                                                                  another little hissy cat and her
                                     may recall the famous barbecue
                                                                    Thankfully, alongside romance,
                                     on the beach at the close of St   love in many other forms contin-  son, and unlike ‘Nervous Nip-  church.  This month I know
      Hello! Here we are in February,   John`s gospel. After that outdoor   ues to exhibit itself, not just on   per’ who is devoted to his mum   lots and lots of people cel-
      the `Shorty` of the twelve calendar   breakfast Jesus sets out to finally   Valentine’s Day but throughout the   Hissy Missy, Benji and his mum   ebrate St Valentine’s Day,
      months, but which also happens to   drag the Apostle Peter away from   whole year in kind acts and char-  Lilly-Puss aren’t that close at   buying cards, gifts and mak-
      include the celebrated Valentine’s   the fishing trade, and cause him   itable giving: food banks for the   all, even hissing at each other.    ing presents for people they
      Day. February 14th is the date   to concentrate `full time` on the   less fortunate, holding open a shop   I know I should welcome the   love – and that’s fine, I am a
      when the hidden feelings of secret   world wide spread of the gospel.   door for someone, giving-way gra-  stranger, the Bible is quite   Christian cat after all, so how
      admirers `bubble to the surface`   Determined to `firm up` loyal-  ciously to other motorists, support-  clear about that, but I don’t
      and undying love is expressed,   ty and commitment, Jesus asks   ing a charity, smiling at strangers   think these two cats are angels   about celebrating the Patron
      often anonymously, via cards,   Peter three times “Do you love   or chatting to lonely neighbours.                         Saint of Cats – Saint Gertrude,
      flowers and chocolates.        me?” Jesus initially uses the word   And if one asks the source of all   in disguise, do angels hiss at   on her festival day of 17th
      No one is really sure about the   `Agape`, meaning Divine love,   this benevolence, Christians be-  each other?            March, yes I know it’s also
      origins of Valentine’s Day. One   but Peter answers using the lesser   lieve they have the answer! Just as                 saint Patrick’s Day and every-
      explanation involves an Emper-  word `Philia`, indicating merely   the quivering needle of a compass                       body loves to get dressed up
      or who, believing that romance   friendship between equals. In the   points steadfastly North, so the                      as leprechauns and have green
      distracted his troops, forbad his   light of the Great Commission to   needle of love seems to point in   However, just like Nipper, Ben-  shamrocks everywhere, but
      armies to have amorous associ-  take the gospel into a hostile and   only one direction. The New Testa-  ji is trying to bully me, that’s   poor old St Gertrude gets
      ations. A monk named Valentine   violent world, it was yet to be seen   ment indicates that love is the very   not angelic behaviour is it?  I   overlooked every year and I
      defied the Emperor and arranged   whether the `love of a friend`,   `core` of God’s character. In the   may be smaller than him but   miss out on extra cat treats.
      secret marriages for the soldiers.   would prove Peter to be just a `fair   Bible `Love` is highly prized – a   I can stand my ground.  Just
      But when Valentine’s clandestine   weather` disciple, or a zealous   virtue placed at the very top of the   the other day he was trying to   How about celebrating the
      activities were uncovered his fate   champion abandoned to Christ.  must-haves list!        understand how the cat flap    Patron Saint of Animals, Saint
      was sealed. Another story centres   However, somewhere along the   So, `stir the moths` in your wallet   works to get outside, so while   Francis of Assisi on 4th Octo-
      on the Roman god Cupid and his   way Peter did attain that five star,   or purse, and `splash out` on those                ber – then everyone could buy
      `matchmaking` exploits. It does   divine love, which finally brought   flowers and chocs – someone,   he was looking at the clear   me treats and spoil me, that
      rather seem that when Cupid fires   him to martyrdom. Legend has it   somewhere, is waiting for you to   plastic flap, I approached from   would be great feast day.
      his arrows, he `hits the target`   that Peter was crucified, like his   `make their day` on the 14th of   outside and quickly hit the flap
      more often than even Robin Hood   master, but upside down at his   February. And, if due to age, you   with all my might, it swished so
      did!                           own request! Why such a bizarre   feel more `rheumatic than roman-  quickly and hit him in the face –
      The Western World has a narrow   ending? Maybe Peter reasoned that  tic`, you can still indulge in the   what a look of shock, he wasn’t
      concept of `love` that displays   as a prominent figurehead in early   wider aspects of love and become   expecting that.    However you celebrate it
      itself, largely, in the language of   Christianity, his own death on a   a force for good with family,                     and whoever you celebrate it
      romance. But, though inclusive of   cross, if exactly the same as the   friends and neighbours.  Thank heavens they don’t all   with, Happy St Valentine’s Day
      romance, love has a far wider per-  incomparable sacrifice of Jesus,   Ken Calder                                                                         come to church, at least I   everyone - from Pips the tabby
      spective. Just as a proud peacock   would somehow bring confusion                           get a bit of peace and quiet in   cat. See you again next month.
                                                                                                                                  Flowers for the
         o the Christmas season has
      Sgone once more, leaving many  We say farewell to Revd Gill and welcome Revd Jan                                            Flowers for the
                                                                                                                                         Queen
       with mixed emotions but when we                                                                                                   Queen
       remember the true meaning of what   One of the ‘new faces’ at the carol   We have said our farewells to the   now returned to us having graduat-
       we celebrated, an overriding feeling   service told us that her mother used   Revd Gill who conducted her last   ed. Welcome back Matt!
                                                                                                                                              All Saints
                                                                                                                                      embers of
       of peace and hope for the future.   to attend until she was unable. It   service at St. Andrews on 9th Jan-  Our thanks go to Mike the retiring   embers of All Saints
       Christmas at Stanley  St. Andrews   was a real treat to see her there.  uary before leaving the Benefice.   Treasurer for all his hard work over   M MChurch, Kirk Hallam are
                                                                                                                                      Church, Kirk Hallam are
       was celebrated with a Carol service,   Our thanks go to the children and   We shall be entering a period of   recent times.   being invited to make knitted
                                                                                                                                 being invited to make knitted
       a Crib service and a Christmas   staff at the school who had done   interregnum, during which time the   We have been getting enquiries   flowers for the Queen’ s Plati -
                                                                                                                                 flowers for the Queen’s Plati-
       morning service of Holy Commun-  a fantastic job of decorating the   Revd Jan will take over with help   about the results of the ‘flyer’   num Jubilee.
                                                                                                                                 num Jubilee.
       ion.                          window opposite the entrance door.   from other, mainly retired, clergy.   distributed to each house before   Flowers of any size, any shape
                                                                                                                                 Flowers of any size, any shape
       The Carol service was quite well at-  This brought a smile to your face as   This will mean a re assessment of   Christmas.  Firstly, a big thank   and any colour are being request- -
                                                                                                                                 and any colour are being request
       tended and it was a real pleasure to   you entered the church.  Well done   services, however I can tell you that   you to those who distributed them
                                                                                                                                 ed to form part of an ‘amazing’
       see new faces in the congregation,   everyone.               services in February will be on 13th   during a very hectic time of year.   ed to form part of an ‘amazing’
                                                                                                                                 display in the church.
       something we really need. We also   A big vote of thanks also to the   and 27th at 11.00am.   Secondly, an equally big thank   display in the church.
                                                                                                                                 They can be left at the vicarage on
       welcomed new faces on Christmas   ladies who decorated the church,   The Church also has a new Treas-  you to those who have returned   They can be left at the vicarage on
                                                                                                                                 Ladywood Road before Monday
       morning and our thanks go to one   with every window bedecked with   urer and a young one! We welcome   the questionnaires. They are still   Ladywood Road before Monday
                                                                                                                                 30th May.
       of those, in helping to light the   lights and holly etc.  Not to mention   Matt who attended St. Andrews   coming in and so it is not possible,   30th May .
                                                                                                                                             *  *  *
       candles on the Advent ring, [she   the Christmas trees, with Brian   regularly, turning up on his bike,   at this time, to draw conclusions   *  *  *
                                                                                                                                 Kirk Hallam Community Hall has
       had the touch with a gas lighter!].  contributing a tree as usual.    before going to university. He has   or to follow up suggestions. What   Kirk Hallam Community Hall has
                                                                                                                                 a cafe and community events for
                                                                                                   I can say is that they will all be   a cafe and community events for
                                                                                                                                 anyone in need of company and
        An Introduction to Catholic                 wants a refresher you would be warmly welcomed.    considered. One thing that has so   anyone in need of company and
                                                                                                                                 friendship.
                                                                                                                                 friendship.
        Christianity                                We will be exploring all aspects of faith such as:   far resulted is that there have been   The cafe is open on  T uesdays,
                                                                                                                                 The cafe is open on Tuesdays,
                                                    Is there a God?  Who is Jesus?  What do Catholics
                                                                                                   some generous donations and all of
                                                                                                                                 Wednesdays and Thursdays for
        Interested in the Catholic Church? - Our Lady and   believe and why?  What is the Church?  How do we   us at St. Andrews are grateful, not   W ednesdays and  Thursdays for
                                                                                                                                 breakfasts, light meals, cakes,
        St Thomas Catholic Church, Ilkeston is running an   pray?  How do we know what is right and wrong? and   only for the donations but also for   breakfasts, light meals, cakes,
                                                                                                                                 drinks, etc.
        introduction to Catholic Christianity for adults.    there will be plenty of time for questions.   your interest. Again, we wish you   drinks, etc.
                                                                                                                                 Let’s Sing is a free community
        The sessions are appropriate for those who wish to   We meet every first Saturday of the month in the   a blessed, healthy and happy new   Let’ s Sing  is a free community
        enter the Church (RCIA) and those who are explor-  church hall (just behind the church, off Regent Street)   year, God bless  singing group that meets on  T ues -
                                                                                                                                 singing group that meets on Tues-
        ing faith. Whether you are baptised, non-baptised, a   at 4:30 pm.   Our address is Our Lady and St Thomas   Richard Hancock   days, 10am till 12 noon.
                                                                                                                                 days, 10am till 12 noon.
        member of another Christian or faith community, or a   of Hereford RC Church, Regent Street, DE7 5RF,   Stanley St. Andrews PCC  Tea, Laughter and Cake is open
                                                                                                                                                     is open
                                                                                                                                 T
                                                                                                                                  ea, Laughter and Cake
        Catholic who has just been away for a while and just   Ilkeston.    Fr. Andrew                                           on Mondays between 1 and 3pm.
                                                                                                                                 on Mondays between 1 and 3pm.
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